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mandy13  

About mandy13

I am a single mother with one child. I get no help from the father. I am also on disability. It is very hard to make ends meet. I need help. I don't know what to do. I think about going back to school. But it would be very difficult physically. Then how would I make it to work. I just pray everyday that I would find a way to have more income.

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4toya  

About 4toya

Hi my name is LaToya and im a single mom of 5 children from the ages of1 to 16 im recently divorced and i have been catching hell trying to find a job i dont get support from my ex husband and im just trying to find some help my light bill is now exceeding 600 dollars if i dont pay were we stay at they put you out  so if you know of any goverment grants or any fincial aid(that i wont have to pay back) anything,PLEASE help. I know there is help out there I have always believed in people we can do anything some times we just need some help. MANY blessings and THANKS.

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colette  

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I dont want to make you feel sorry for me. I was a stay at home mother with 4 children etc. Married to a controlling man for 20 years decided to leave  took the kids and went to 1st court date lost everything My kids my house my car.my ex lied about everything had finaically had a upper hand thur out everything period. It is a long story I can only see my kids on the weekend from 9 to 6 they cant even spend the night. I am completely destroyed by this, I was left without a car to go get them . No job no support.....starting my life over. my family completely destoyed. Las vegas family court judge was unfair and prejudge me on no evidence.. I was a stay at home mother. I dont know what else to say. I thought you had to be a complete lowlife to lose your kids. I am not I never did anything wrong.I just wanted was i deserved my children and support for 2 years to get on my feet.. didnt happen Now I just need help to get a car to go to work or back to school. To fight for what I lost Help Please if you can. I dont know what else to say except thanks for reading and anything you can do ..Pray please

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where is the love  

About where is the love

Hello everyone,

I am writing this because I feel I am at my lowest point. I am a single mom of three, ages 6, and twins that are 1 and half. Thier father is no where in sight has not called or has even asked to see his kids. I am left trying to do this all on my own. As if the three kids wasn't enough to keep me busy, I also work and go to school full time. I feel that the Lord is  rewarding my kids dead beat father. He always seems to have someone to help him get through his lonely nights, pay his bills, and he can go and do what ever he wants to do. I dont think that its fair. He has not payed his child support and right now I am trying to figure out what I can do to get  some money so I can put gas in the car so I can get to work. It is really frustrating. I have pawned all I could. borowed from who I could, I've done payday loans, I have even figured out that as long as I have a dollar in my debt account I will be able to fill up my tank. I am at my wits end. Why does the Lord reward thoose who don't take care of their responsibilities. And here I am every day trying to do something for me and my kids, not just sitting on welfare. And yet we struggle more. why?  I am so angry and frustrated with the Lord, he did tell me that this wasn't going to be easy, but come on. I am so stressed I take it out on my kids I am constitantly yelling at them espacially my 6 year old. I know that yelling at them doesn't help the situation but I dont know what else to do. They are constatenly into things as soon as my back is turned. and my 6 year old doesn't seem to understand a word I am saying to him, I have to tell him to do one thing several times just for him to do it, and then he winnes about it. I love my kids , their the reason why I get up in the morning. But dear Lord why cant I have help. I really dont have any reliable friends, and my parents help out only once in a while. So I dont have a support group that I could turn to. I try to convince myself that one day our situation will improve. and the Lod did promise that he will be with me.  But why cant our lives be perfect now, why do we have to go through all these hard times. Last month I was struggling to put food on the table, this month I am struggle to get to work and school so I can put food on the table I see no end to this cycle. WHY? 

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Tonia Marie  

God Bless everyone on aid page

Hi this is Ton -Alot of things have changed since my last post-Mike and I are doing well.We are in the process of moving out of our delapitated trailer and to a beautiful house in the country.We are renting and although it is further away from my family it is the only choice we seem to have. We have open sewer running out the backyard-all the ceilings are caving in and I have 3 children who  can't play in gthe backyard because of sewage.The landlord has done nothing the only time I see the landlord id when rent is due.Mike and I are moving all by ourselves -during this move my 3 y.o. daughter will be going in for a operation-also my 7 y.o. daughter is distraut about switching schools even though she gets picked on about the trailer we are living in.The typical crap kids dish out trailer trash just plain hurtful things that kill me on the inside,I only pray that all thgis adversity will make us stronger-I have hopes and dreams just like anyone else and sometimes I feel so alone sad but I must persevere through all of this.Please pray that my baby gets through this operation -and thatmy 7 y.o will find happiness and that even with no family support that Mike and I get through all this.Moving with 3 small children is difficult but mnot impossible-We are still clean and sober and God Bless everyone who is goingf through adversity -believe there are reasons why things are happining the way they are and that new better opportunities are on the horizon-NEVER GIVE UP>

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FeeFee  

About YoungSingleMomsReady2Rise

Hello everyone my name is Fee

And I am going through a lot, but I know I'm not the only one. So I created this space for all the Young Single Mothers thats ready to make a change in their life, a change that starts with being a wonderful provider for our children. I am 26 yrs old, with 3 children. Yes I have made some not so smart decisions in my life that I am tried of being judge by. I know I am a wonderful mother, a hardworker, and a great listener. So I thought I would bring what I have to offer to everyone.  When things get hard and you are yelling for help and it seems like no one is listening, When bills are stacking up and you have to choose between food and lights, I've been there. Everyone needs a support system and everyone needs a open ear. So maybe I can help by listening, or maybe you can help me, maybe there are  a group of us out there ready for that change and maybe we can help one another.

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